A Mirror of Humility and Honesty

 Pride and shame are the broken mirror version of self awareness.  The simplistic answer to how to fix this view is Jesus. 

Throughout Jesus’ life and teachings we are being shown how to live as citizens of the Kingdom of God.  At the center of his teaching we find the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5 - 7) or the Sermon on the Plain (Luke 6:17 - 49).  In my opinion these passages contain Jesus’ primary teaching material.  When he would travel from village to village some form of this is what he taught.

There are many lessons to learn from these passages but it all starts with what we call  The Beatitudes (Matthew 5:3 -12 & Luke 6:20 - 23).  This section is a difficult mirror to look into.  

When we look at ourselves through the mirror of the Beatitudes we see ourselves for who we truly are.

Pride and shame causes us to hide all our weaknesses and put on a veneer of having it all together.  Instead Jesus teaches us not to hide when we are poor in spirit, when we mourn, when we hunger and thirst for righteousness.  Jesus also teaches us to be meek, to be merciful, to be pure of heart and to make peace.  When we live out these qualities the culture around us will look down on us or persecute us.  These are perceived as weaknesses because our culture is based on selfish power.

Honesty and humility are the mirror that leads us to admit we have the qualities in our life.  Jesus holds this mirror up for us to look at ourselves.  We are blessed when we step out of our hiding place and expose ourselves to the LORD.  Instead of a life with ourselves a god we follow Jesus’ example letting go of our selfishness and obediently acknowledging the LORD as the true God! (Philippians 2:6 - 11)

It is a harder life to live but it is only way to live a blessed life!

Pride and shame are the broken mirror version of self awareness.

 Why do we need a new life with Jesus?

The simplistic answer is sin.

Sin is not just our willful disobedience of the LORD it is a simplistic way to describe the fallen brokenness of the world around us.  This fallen brokenness extends to all of our relationships.

Our relationship with the LORD is broken

Our relationship with ourselves is broken

Our relationship with others is broken

To understand how our relationship with ourselves is broken we have to go all the way back to the beginning again.  When Adam and Eve are in the garden not only was their relationship with the LORD perfect but their relationship within themself was perfect.  We understand this because pride and shame had not entered the world.

Pride and shame are the broken mirror version of self awareness.  Pride causes us to believe we are above or better than others.  It also causes us to believe others should not have it as good as we do.  Pride is unhealthy competition and fuels our desire to win when there is nothing to truly win.  We see this when people disagree just to disagree or won’t admit when they are wrong or at fault.  Our prideful selfs love to point this out in others but the list of modern people guilty of pride is long and includes our own names.

Shame on the other hand is not guilt for sin but an uneasiness about our ownself.  Shame causes us to feel we are less than others.  When Adam and Eve felt shame about being naked nothing about them had actually changed.   Eve wasn’t ashamed of Adam and Adam wasn’t ashamed of Eve.  They were ashamed of themselves for being who they were created to be because their relationship with themselves was broken.

Shame is also what causes us to hide when we know we did wrong.  Adam and Eve hid from the LORD because they had disobeyed the LORD.  Instead of facing the truth and dealing with the consequences they hid trying to avoid what they deserved.

Pride and shame are the broken mirror version of self awareness.  The simplistic answer to how to fix this view is Jesus.  A more complex answer is what we will explore next week.

Simplistic Answer to "Why we need Jesus?"

Why do we need a new life with Jesus?

The simplistic answer is “sin”

Sin is not just disobedience it is replacing the LORD as the God of our lives with ourselves as god.

In the beginning we see this with Adam and Eve.  In the beginning they were created in the LORD’s image.  (Genesis 1:27)  In the beginning they were obedient to the LORD.  They lived for a long time in the garden.

Sometime later the Devil tempted them to be like God. (Genesis 3)  In other words they could be their own gods.  Instead of choosing obedience and rejecting temptation they choose to take the fruit.  In doing so they tried to make themselves gods.  The sad fact is they were already like God being created in the LORD’s image.

In doing this they broke their relationship with the LORD.  In doing this their relationship with the LORD died.  This dead broken relationship has been passed down to us.  (Romans 5:12 - 20)

We are powerless to repair or resurrect this relationship; this is why we need Jesus!

The truth of this story is not that it happened once but that it happens everyday.  Everyday in our lives we have a choice.  Do we acknowledge the LORD is God of our lives or do we try to make ourselves god of our lives.

As a new year begins this is a great time to start a new relationship with Jesus through faith and baptism.  It is also a great time to renew your relationship with Jesus through confession.

Empty Table, Full Tables and the Table of the LORD

I originally wrote this as an article for the Family Life (the news letter for the Church of Christ in Falls Church, VA.) on Sunday, May 24th 2020 but I feel it has a message for everyone during the Covid-19 virus pandemic. 

Last Sunday (May 17th 2020) morning started on the rocky side.  First the video connection to the morning Bible class was just not working.   This was due to the number of churches trying to use ZOOM at the same time.  After the class and double checking the video stream for the worship service was good. I finally sat down on my couch with a cup of coffee.

Listening to the singing I noticed our communion table was empty at the building.  At first I found this kind of sad.  Normal our table would have our plates with the bread and trays with our cups containing the fruit of the vine.

About the time Habtu began the communion service a thought struck me.  That table is empty but the tables at our homes were full.  We had all those elements with us.  We were taking communion at our homes with thousands if not millions of other sisters and brothers in Christ.

Later another thought came to me.  The table at my church’s building was empty on my tv screen but the TABLE of the LORD was full!  The LORD’s Table is never empty.  All have been invited.  It is the place we as believers gather to remember.  We remember the birth, life, teachings, miracles, example, death and resurrection of Jesus the Christ.  We don’t remember on our own, we remember together.  It is a communal remembrance.  That is why Paul was so angry with some of the Corinthians because they had forgotten to remember together!

Throughout Sunday the Body of Christ was meeting and crashing ZOOM.  The Body of Christ was also meeting and taking the Lord’s Supper!  As the earth spins and church services begin in different parts of our world individual members of the Body of Christ take the Lord’s Supper together.  Separately together we remembered as one.

This coming Sunday if you are by yourself during Communion you are not alone! We are all remembering with you.  We are all praying with you.  We are all singing with you.  We are all together in spirit if we aren’t together in body.  Our tables are together and are a representation of the LORD’s Table.

Jeremiah's Letter to the Exiles

I originally wrote this as an article for the Family Life (the news letter for the Church of Christ in Falls Church, VA.) on Sunday, May 3rd 2020 but I feel it has a message for everyone during the Covid-19 virus pandemic.

Tuesday night (April 28th 2020) , during the virtual small group hosted by the McKays, we all shared scripture that was meaningful to us.  It was so good to see many familiar faces and a new one as well.  It was so good to hear everyone share how the written word of God is impacting their life.  I chose to share Jeremiah 29:4 - 9.

This week I have been listening to Jeremiah and it is a difficult story.  Jeremiah is called to be a prophet at a terrible time in the history of Judah.  The kingdom will have fallen by the end.  The last of the people will be ethnically cleansed from the Promised Land.

Jeremiah’s job is to proclaim this bad news.  He declares that these events were caused by the sin of the people and the LORD is responsible.  It is the LORD who is carrying the people away to new land and cities.  Their normal lives are turned upside down.  By the end of this, the people will need to make and find a new normal.

In this new normal the LORD tells the people in exile to settle in.  They are to make new homes.  They are to have families.  They are to encourage their children to have families.  They are to want the best for the new foriegn place they find themselves in.  They are to embrace the new normal.

They don’t want to be in exile.  The LORD knows this but in their exile they are to be light in the places they now live.

“Also, seek the peace and prosperity of the city to which I have carried you into exile. Pray to the LORD for it, because if it prospers, you too will prosper. (Jeremiah 29:7)

This should sound familiar.  Our world is turned upside down.  Our normal routines have been disrupted.  We haven’t been carried into exile but we are surviving a global pandemic.   The ways we used to live will not return and on the other side of this we will find a new normal.

In this new normal we are to seek the peace and prosperity of the place we find ourselves.  We are to pray for prosperity in this new normal because it will cause us to prosper too.

Like the exiles we won’t know what our new normal will be.  We are facing uncertainty.  Like the exiles we know the LORD is with us.  We have not been left on our own but the Father, Son and Holy Spirit are with us as we move into a new normal.

40 Days and 40 Nights

I originally wrote this as an article for the Family Life (the news letter for the Church of Christ in Falls Church, VA.) on Easter Sunday, April 26th 2020 but I feel it has a message for everyone during the Covid-19 virus pandemic.

Friday, March 13th 2020 Fairfax County Public School decided to suspend classes until after Spring Break.  On that day I began counting my COVID-19 Day Count in my journal.  Almost everyday since then I have been writing in my journal.  I am keeping track of some of the news.  I am keeping track what day of the week it is.  I am keeping track of my thoughts and feeling.  I am keeping track of the numbers of days in my count.

On Tuesday, April 21st 2020 my count reached 40.  At first I didn’t think much of that until I realized that was 40 days!  This is an important biblical number.

In the story of Noah and the Ark the LORD sends rain for 40 days and nights. (Genesis 7)

Moses is on the mount Sinai with the LORD for 40 days and nights. (Exodus 24:18 & 34:28)

Moses then spends 40 days and nights in prayer and fasting on behalf of the people because of their sin. (Deuteronomy 9:18)

The Israelite scouts explore the land for 40 days. (Numbers 13:25)

Goliath taunts the Israelites for 40 days before David arrives. (1 Samuel 17:16)

Elijah takes 40 days and 40 nights to travel to Mount Horeb. (1 Kings 19:8)

Jonah proclaims Nineveh will be destroyed in 40 days and nights if they don’t repent. (Jonah 3:4)

Jesus fasts and is tempted by the Devil for 40 days and 40 nights. (Mark 1:3, Matthew 4:2 & Luke 4:2)

Jesus then appears to many over a period of 40 days following His resurrection. (Acts 1.3)

Depending on your count, we have spent at least 40 days and 40 nights with our stay at home order.

We won’t know how Noah and his family felt to be in an Ark for 40 days.  We won’t know what it was like for Elijah to walk for 40 days.  We won’t know how it felt for Moses or Jesus to fast for 40 days.  What we do have is a good point of reference for understanding what 40 days and 40 nights feels like.  It feels like a really long time and at the same time doesn’t feel that long at all.

Right now we know the stay at home order will expire on June 10th but we don’t know how long after that it will take for life to feel normal.  Just like at the end of these 40 days there will be a new normal.  One thing that didn’t change at the end of the 40 days and won’t change when we start to feel normal is the fact that the LORD is with us!

Anticipating GLORY!

I originally wrote this as an article for the Family Life (the news letter for the Church of Christ in Falls Church, VA.) on Easter Sunday, April 19th 2020 but I feel it has a message for everyone during the Covid-19 virus pandemic. 

Anticipating GLORY!

At the end of the New Testament we find a letter about THE END.  Revelation lays out all the woes, horrors and deceptions that are all around us.  Revelation also reveals from the very beginning the victory that awaits the LORD’s faithful people.  The letter spoils its own ending but in doing so builds anticipation.

We start with Jesus revealed in all HIS GLORY and we end with Jesus in all HIS GLORY.  It is here in the middle that it is hard to see that GLORY.  We are currently surrounded by terrible news about COVID-19.  We are currently staying home away from our family, friends and fellow believers.  We are currently wearing masks and gloves to keep ourselves and others safe.  We are anxious about our jobs and paying our bills.  We also hear that in the United States alone over 24,000 have died and over half a million have contracted this virus.  (As of April 15th 202 according to https://coronavirus.jhu.edu/us-map).  Here in the middle it is hard to see Jesus’ GLORY.

In fact, those who initially received the letter of Revelation were also facing grim news.  John’s vision starts to end with Jesus encouraging the readers, this includes us as well.

“Look, I am coming soon! My reward is with me, and I will give to each person according to what they have done.  I am the Alpha and the Omega, the First and the Last, the Beginning and the End."

“Blessed are those who wash their robes, that they may have the right to the tree of life and may go through the gates into the city.  Outside are the dogs, those who practice magic arts, the sexually immoral, the murderers, the idolaters and everyone who loves and practices falsehood."

“I, Jesus, have sent my angel to give you this testimony for the churches. I am the Root and the Offspring of David, and the bright Morning Star.” (Revelation 22:12 - 16)

The last words of Revelation are calls for Jesus to come in all HIS GLORY.  The Spirit calls.  The Bride calls. John calls.  Believers throughout the centuries until today call!  “COME!”

It may feel like you are alone here in the middle but you are not!  Jesus is with you.  The Holy Spirit is with you.  The Father is with you. We are with you.  We all want Jesus to finally COME is all HIS GLORY!

His answer is our HOPE  “Yes, I am coming soon.” (Revelation 22:20)

Is There Any Good News?

I originally wrote this as an article for the Family Life (the news letter for the Church of Christ in Falls Church, VA.) on Easter Sunday, April 12th 2020 but I feel it has a message for everyone during the Covid-19 virus pandemic. 

Is There Any Good News?

There is no way to sugarcoat this but the world is full of the worst news we have faced in a generation.  Which leads many to ask “Is there any good news?”

The first disciples struggled with this question too.  Imagine if you were one of them on the day Jesus entered Jerusalem at the beginning of Passover.  Hundreds of people celebrated his coming.  The rest of the week was full of victory after victory.  Jesus was confronting the religious establishment.  Jesus was teaching important lessons.  When Jesus was at the top of his game it all came to a sudden end!

You had looked forward to the Passover Meal all week and shortly afterwards everything turned upside down.  Jesus lets himself be arrested and in fear you run for your life!  You hear word that a trial has happened in the middle of night and Jesus is to be crucified.

You stand from a distance and watch.  You see the man you had put your faith in as the Messiah die at the hands of the Roman Empire.  You feel all your hope go dark.  This is the worst news you can imagine.  The Messiah who promised so much is gone.

You gather with your fellow disciples and apostles.  Some of you sit stunned.  Some want to fight.  Some bring a strange and unbelievable rumor that Jesus is alive.

In all this darkness you don’t see any light but there it is!  The rumor is from Mary and some of the other women who found the tomb empty.  Then Peter and John bring the same news!  Later some of disciples turned around from a trip to tell you all they encountered JESUS alive.

Then out of nowhere the one person in the world you never thought you would see again walks into the room.  JESUS is alive!  He lets you touch his wounds.  He eats with you and gives you hope!

Out of this hope you begin to spread the word.  Jesus is alive.  Jesus has opened the doors to the Kingdom of Heaven.  Jesus sacrificed himself so we could be free from sin.  Jesus calls us to live as daughters and sons of GOD.  This is our good news!

With You in Spirit part 2

I originally wrote this as an article for the Family Life (the news letter for the Church of Christ in Falls Church, VA.) on April 5th 2020 but I feel it has a message for everyone during the Covid-19 virus pandemic. 

As I write this on Tuesday March 31st 2020, it has been at least 3 Sundays since we have met together face to face as a church. We have sat at home participating in our worship service from home. We have been physically separated from each other for good reason but we are together in spirit!

This separation has been made a little easier thanks to modern communication technology. Our Member Emergence Care Program has made it a goal to contact every member by phone. The Upper Room Teen Ministry is having VURMs (Virtual Upper Room Meetings) twice a week using Zoom. The Wednesday evening class is also using Zoom too! There are also members who are regularly calling, texting and messaging each other. It is important for us all to be reaching out and checking on each other at these times.

This virtual contact can only go so far. We want and desire to meet face to face. The apostle John felt the same way. He did not have the ability to use a camera and screen to meet but he did write letters. In what we call 2nd and 3rd John he expresses this desire.

I have much to write to you, but I do not want to use paper and ink. Instead, I hope to visit you and talk with you face to face, so that our joy may be complete. - 2nd John :12 (The New International Version. 2011)

I have much to write you, but I do not want to do so with pen and ink. I hope to see you soon, and we will talk face to face. - 3 John :13 - :14 (The New International Version. 2011)

We feel the same way John does. There is a certain happiness in seeing each other over Facetime, Skype or Zoom but we want that complete JOY he is writing about. Sometime in the near future we will gather together as a church in our building and experience that complete joy. This will be more than just a momentarily feeling of happiness but a long lasting joy.

For now we need to stay home to keep ourselves and others safe from Covid19. Like I wrote last time you aren’t alone because we are together in the Spirit. You are with us and we are with you in the Spirit! This is still true today!

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With You in Spirit part 1

I originally wrote this as an article for the Family Life (my church's newsletter) on March 24th 2020 but I feel it has a message for everyone during the Covid-19 virus pandemic. 

Even though we have not been able to meet together as the church we are still with each other in the Spirit as the church.

In the early church letters were vitally important.  Apostles like Paul and John were on the move spreading the Good News of Jesus.  They would arrive in a town, teach as long as they could and then move on.  Sometimes they were misunderstood and weren’t able to correct that misunderstanding in person.  Sometimes an unexpected issue would arise and they weren’t present to help.

In those times of absence letters were sent.  Paul, Peter, James, John, Jude and the author of Hebrews all wrote letters to churches to encourage, teach and clarify.  These authors knew they weren’t physically but were with them in Spirit.

At least twice Paul writes about this:

For though I am absent from you in body, I am present with you in spirit and delight to see how disciplined you are and how firm your faith in Christ is. - Colossians 2:5

For my part, even though I am not physically present, I am with you in spirit. - 1 Corinthians 5:3

He was unable to be with them but through the Spirit was able to be present.  This was not some kind of Holy Spirit Facetime or Skype.  Instead through the Spirit he is encouraging the Colossians or he is backing up the Corinthians with a hard decision.

The same is true with us today.  You need to stay home to keep yourself and others safe from Covid-19.  Unlike the early church you can gather around a screen at home and worship with us.  You aren’t alone because we are together in the Spirit.  You are with us and we are with you in the Spirit!